What is my style of life coaching?
Because each Coach has his or her own style of coaching clients, I thought that you would be interested in knowing how I coach, what I expect of my clients and what my clients can expect of me.
My Clients Are Great
I am blessed with the privilege of choosing my clients. I want and enjoy each one of them. They are all growing, successful and well, and I am assisting them to further their personal lives.
I Expect Your Best
If you are hiring me, then you’re probably ready to do and be your best. And if you aren’t doing your best, I’ll ask you to. If you can’t do that at that moment, I’ll understand and do what you need to be heard, loved and helped back into the groove.
I Make Direct Requests
From time to time, I’ll make a direct request, like “will you accomplish X by the end of the month?” You may accept the request, counter-offer (like say what you can do) or decline (rare). I’ll make you right whichever way you respond.
I Give Straight Suggestions
If I am sure of the situation, and you’re open to it, make specific suggestions on how to handle a problem or “go-for” an opportunity. If I am not sure, I’ll say so. Regardless, use the best of what I say and use your own judgment.
I Don’t Step Over Much
When I hear a funny tone in your voice, or hear you say something that I just can’t “get”, I’ll ask you about it. Often, it is these small moments that offer the chance to resolve something. However, I don’t confront; I’ll merely invite you to look at something.
I Give Lots Of Homework
I usually ask that the client come up with three goals, actions or breakthroughs to have between this call and the next. If it is too much, say so. If you want more, just ask.
You Are Expected to Use Me, Not Depend on Me
As your coach, I am a resource and presence for you to use to your best advantage. I have an almost unlimited amount of love, compassion, forgiveness, and strength for you. I ask that my clients use me as their resource and friend, but not to let themselves get into the position of needing me (or the coaching) as a dependency thing or fix.
I Am Here
I want to hear it all. If you have a personal problem, are upset with something (even me or the coaching), are just starting to realize something big, can’t wait to share a breakthrough, call me. Anytime.
